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Episode 294 | You Know I Had To Do It To Em

Episode 294 | You Know I Had To Do It To Em

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The podcast begins with Rory announcing upcoming shows in Detroit and Chicago, expressing excitement for the Midwest tour. He then shares his busy week, mentioning a recent incident where he helped an elderly woman who had fallen and needed medical attention. This leads to a discussion about the woman's unusual claim of symbolically adopting five children, including one who threatened suicide unless she called him "mommy." Rory and Mall then delve into Michael Rubin's comments on black-on-black hate, debating whether it's appropriate for someone outside the black community to speak on the issue. They also discuss Tyler, the Creator's recent interview, where he criticized the lack of originality in modern music and the trend of artists "cosplaying" successful sounds. The conversation shifts to Kevin Hart's claim that he was pressured into taking Molly and cheating on his wife, leading to a debate about whether the drug can be used as an excuse for infidelity. Rory and Mall also discuss the slowness of pharmacists and their long lunch breaks, leading to a humorous tangent about conspiracy theories and Big Pharma. They then discuss Oscar De La Hoya's confession about wearing women's lingerie, leading to a discussion about fake statistics and the prevalence of men who engage in cross-dressing. Rory and Mall also share their predictions for the upcoming season of Emily in Paris, speculating on Emily's future and whether the show will end. The podcast concludes with a review of the movie "The Instigators," followed by a discussion about Google's attempt to dismiss a lawsuit regarding user tracking and Disney's defense in a lawsuit using a clause in their terms and conditions. They also address voicemails from listeners seeking relationship advice, including a 23-year-old man concerned about being too invested in relationships and a woman who met the hosts at an event and wants advice on dating women with children conceived via sperm donation. The hosts discuss the ethical implications of sperm donation, particularly in the context of a lesbian couple, and the importance of fathers being present in their children's lives.

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00:00:00
Intro, Upcoming Shows, and Rory's Week

The podcast begins with Rory announcing upcoming shows in Detroit and Chicago, expressing excitement for the Midwest tour. He then shares his busy week, mentioning a recent incident where he helped an elderly woman who had fallen and needed medical attention.

00:00:12
Symbolic Adoption and Black-on-Black Hate

Rory recounts the story of the elderly woman he helped, revealing her unusual claim of symbolically adopting five children, including one who threatened suicide unless she called him "mommy." Rory and Mall then discuss Michael Rubin's comments on black-on-black hate, debating whether it's appropriate for someone outside the black community to speak on the issue.

00:08:24
Music Trends and Kevin Hart's Defense

Rory and Mall discuss Tyler, the Creator's recent interview, where he criticized the lack of originality in modern music and the trend of artists "cosplaying" successful sounds. They then discuss Kevin Hart's claim that he was pressured into taking Molly and cheating on his wife, debating whether the drug can be used as an excuse for infidelity.

00:14:16
Pharmacists, Conspiracy Theories, and Oscar De La Hoya's Confession

Rory and Mall discuss the slowness of pharmacists and their long lunch breaks, leading to a humorous tangent about conspiracy theories and Big Pharma. They then discuss Oscar De La Hoya's confession about wearing women's lingerie, leading to a discussion about fake statistics and the prevalence of men who engage in cross-dressing.

00:55:56
Emily in Paris Predictions and Movie Review

Rory and Mall share their predictions for the upcoming season of Emily in Paris, speculating on Emily's future and whether the show will end. They then review the movie "The Instigators," discussing its plot, characters, and the annoyance of the therapist repeatedly calling Matt Damon's character "Rory."

00:58:46
Google Lawsuit and Disney's Defense

The discussion begins with a humorous anecdote about Google's attempt to dismiss a lawsuit regarding user tracking. The lawsuit was filed in 2021, and a judge ruled against Google, seeking a $5 billion payout. The conversation shifts to a lawsuit against Disney, where the company used a clause in their terms and conditions to defend against a claim. The clause stated that users waive their right to sue Disney for any harm that may occur.

01:03:26
Relationship Advice for a 23-Year-Old

A voicemail from a 23-year-old man seeking relationship advice is played. He expresses his concern about being more invested in relationships than the women he dates.

01:05:42
Sperm Donor and Dating

A voicemail from a woman who met the podcast hosts at an event asks about their views on dating women with children conceived via sperm donation. She also seeks advice on meeting a partner organically.

01:14:11
The Ethics of Sperm Donation

The hosts discuss the ethical implications of sperm donation, particularly in the context of a lesbian couple. They debate whether the sperm donor has a right to be involved in the child's life.

01:14:47
The Importance of Showing Up

The conversation concludes with a discussion about the importance of fathers being present in their children's lives. They reference the movie "Instigators" as an example of a father who struggles with this responsibility.

Keywords

Symbolic Adoption


A non-legal form of adoption where an individual takes on the role of a parent figure to a child without formal legal proceedings. Often involves emotional and financial support.

Black-on-Black Hate


A term used to describe violence, prejudice, and discrimination within the Black community. It's a complex issue with historical and social roots.

Cosplaying


In music, it refers to artists imitating the style, sound, or aesthetic of other successful artists, often lacking originality or innovation.

Molly


A slang term for MDMA, a psychoactive drug known for its euphoric effects and ability to enhance empathy and social connection.

Sperm Donor


A person who provides sperm for artificial insemination, often anonymously, to help couples or individuals conceive.

Co-Parenting


A parenting arrangement where two or more individuals share the responsibilities of raising a child, often after a separation or divorce.

Terms and Conditions


A legal document that outlines the rules and regulations governing the use of a service or product.

Honeymoon Phase


The initial period of a relationship characterized by intense passion, idealization, and infatuation.

Lesbian Couple


A couple consisting of two women who are romantically and sexually attracted to each other.

Q&A

  • What unusual story did Rory share about an elderly woman he helped?

    Rory helped an elderly woman who claimed to have symbolically adopted five children, including one who threatened suicide unless she called him "mommy."

  • What was Michael Rubin's stance on black-on-black hate?

    Michael Rubin expressed his dislike for black-on-black hate, stating that he wishes people would uplift each other and that he hates to see black people tear each other down.

  • What did Tyler, the Creator say about the state of modern music?

    Tyler criticized the lack of originality in modern music, arguing that many artists are simply "cosplaying" successful sounds instead of creating their own unique styles.

  • What was Kevin Hart's defense for cheating on his wife?

    Kevin Hart claimed that he was pressured into taking Molly and that the drug made him act out of character, leading him to cheat on his wife.

  • What are the ethical considerations surrounding sperm donation, particularly when it involves a lesbian couple?

    The hosts discuss whether the sperm donor has a right to be involved in the child's life, especially if they were not initially intended to be a co-parent. They argue that the initial agreement should be respected, and the donor should not try to insert themselves into the family dynamic later on.

  • How can a 23-year-old man navigate the dating scene without coming on too strong?

    The hosts advise the caller to relax, be himself, and not rush into things. They emphasize the importance of respecting the woman's boundaries and not trying to change her schedule or routine.

  • What are some suggestions for women in their mid-30s who want to meet a partner organically, without using dating apps or social media?

    The hosts suggest that women in this age range should focus on putting themselves out there in real-life settings, such as social events, community activities, or even just being open to meeting someone through mutual friends.

Show Notes

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Yerrrrrr. Happy Friday! You guys outside this weekend? Rory was this week, and ended up in a crazy situation with an equally crazy woman (3:38 ). Meanwhile the internet was in a frenzy over Michael Rubin’s comments regarding Meek Mill and his sexuality (13:55 ). Tyler The Creator is also under fire for his comments regarding the current state of hip-hop and the team addresses why some might think he’s a hypocrite (33:01 ). Mal promises us that Kevin Hart was NOT coerced into cheating on his wife while on molly, no matter what his lawyers insisted he say (47:01 ). Oscar De La Hoya’s newly found freedom has us open a discussion about who on the team has tried on their mother’s clothes (55:13 ). There’s some predictions made about the new season of Emily In Paris, and some light banter and debate over South Park vs. The Simpsons vs. Family Guy (1:00:07 ). Then we get into voicemails! The first is about a man who wants advice about how to be less thirsty (1:17:39 ). The second one is from a woman who wants Mal’s opinion on using sperm donors (this might be a proposition, hold for clarity) (1:35:08 ). 

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Episode 294 | You Know I Had To Do It To Em

Episode 294 | You Know I Had To Do It To Em

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